Embrace the unknown

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create it anyway

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Live for yourself

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trust your actions

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Embrace the unknown · create it anyway · Live for yourself · trust your actions ·

ENERGY

TRUST

JOY

ACTION

living in flow: an experiment

ABOUT

Hi, my name is Nikki!

I believe the most realistic way to live your life is to stop playing devil’s advocate with yourself, and chase what makes you feel alive.

That’s the path I’m learning to walk, and I’m documenting it here.

I’ve loved psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, and spirituality.

These are the languages I root to my lived human experience, to speak in ways that sneak past conditioned self-doubt and stigma, to stir the fire in your soul.

how i think

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    Concepts

    It all starts with mental concepts.

    If they’re too small for us, they hold us back.

    (None of them are true, just more or less aligned)

  • Systems

    Systems

    Elaborate systems consume our limited awareness.

    Minimum viable systems free awareness and support action.

    (Make it simple enough to work when your brain is on fire)

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    Energy

    Concepts, systems, and environment constrain our energy.

    We don’t need high vibes, we need coherence.

    (Support with less concepts, more physical action)

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    Actions

    Our body does everything for us. It learns only through repeated action.

    This is the bridge between who we are inside and our social persona.

    (If we can’t act, concepts, systems and energy are misaligned. Ignore logic and take random actions.)

  • Wisdom

    The experience of action leads to new skills in our body, feedback from reality, and awareness in our mind.

    Wisdom naturally updates our concepts.

    (The wisest are fools, have fun)

What I’m selling

The experience of being human.

Stories to see yourself without stigma.
Strategies to act without perfectionism.
Joy for the journey, not the destination.
Perspectives to guide your difficult days.
Commitment to investing in your own life.
Trust to choose without knowing the outcome.

TESTIMONIALS

  • garfield

    "A joy working with Nikki. She provides a solid foundation for growth and productivity. She is flexible enough to work with project management software that works for me that we can use together. She is easy to talk to and that is just what I need for this type of project."

  • george

    “It's been great to work with Nikki! She was excellent at holding space to allow me to work through some key issues in my business and together, find useful solutions.”

  • karin

    "Working with Nikki has been an absolutely wonderful experience. She is not only incredibly knowledgeable in her field, but also kind, professional, and genuinely invested in my growth."

  • kathy

    "Nikki has shown a remarkable ability to understand exactly what I need—whether it's setting clear goals, helping me break them down into actionable steps, or simply providing the steady support and accountability I didn’t even know I was missing. "

  • Becka

    "Nikki's helped me gain clarity, build confidence, and move forward with purpose. Her insight, patience, and thoughtful guidance have made such a difference in both my personal and professional life. "

  • sabrina

    “I truly can’t say enough about how valuable her coaching has been. If you’re looking for someone who is smart, supportive, and deeply committed to helping you succeed, Nikki is exactly who you want by your side.”

  • Kao

    “Nikki's probably my favorite! She listens well, asks great questions to help me reflect, and is able to understand the complexities of what I share with her. She's a superstar. Thanks Nikki!”

  • Ethel

    “Nikki is very helpful and patient, and a great listener. Thank you for motivating me and being there for me as I work towards achieving my goals:)”

  • Aaron

    “Nikki has both personal experience as well as academic knowledge that help her deliver a great service. She's able to transmit what she's learned and support you in your goals. As of now, she's criminally underpaid and I hope she rises prices because she's worth more.”

  • Min

    “Nikki truly exceeded my expectations! Collaborating with Nikki was an absolute pleasure—she was responsive, highly cooperative, and always punctual. With more tasks ahead, I'm eager to work with her again. I wholeheartedly recommend Nikki —she's a game-changer! 👍”

  • Mia

    “Not only did I accomplish more than I expected, but I also felt more confident and motivated moving forward on my own after our sessions. I highly recommend Nikki to anyone looking to boost their productivity”